Monday, 14 July 2014

Voyage - Day 2 – Tuesday 8 July – the Queen Mary's Catholic Chaplain

We get up later this morning, and after breakfast we spend the late morning/early afternoon period sleeping on the loungers on the dry side of the deck – it's very wet with sea spray over the other side, and quite breezy. This side is sheltered and calm, hot in the sun, but quite cool in the shade. The outside temperature is 23 degrees. though you need a fleece if sitting in the shade, as we are. I have my kindle, but I soon doze off!

We still aren't sure whether this cruising way of life suits us or not – although we can't knock this opportunity to have a rest & relax as much as we like, with good food thrown in! Reg goes to see a 1950's film in the afternoon called “Bell, Book and Candle”, starring Kim Novak and James Stewart; Kim Novak herself is on the ship, and gives a personal introduction to the film. While Reg goes to the cinema, I catch up on writing yesterday's blog. Reg says,

I thought you weren't going to do a blog on board ship. The whole idea of this cruise is to have a rest.”

I reply that some people have asked me to say something about our time on the Queen Mary 2. Since much of our time on the ship consists of eating, relaxing and sleeping, with a little reading here and there, I'll concentrate on a few specific events or people of interest.

It's good that there's lots of activities you can take part in if you want to – I was tempted by the Knitting class, but somehow didn't quite get there. There are people travelling alone, some of whom are of very senior years, and people with disabilities; and no doubt others too, who might for whatever reason be isolated in normal life, or might not be able to get out and about as much as they once did. On board ship you can very quickly become part of a community, with the opportunity to join in as few or as many activities as you choose. Some of the activities on offer are as follows:

Crosswords, Catholic Mass, Bridge Class, Rada Workshop (drama), Lectures on various subjects, Watercolour Class, Solo Travellers' Coffee Morning, Hooplah Competition, ipad workshop, Ballroom Dance class, Lunchtime Melodies, Line Dance Class, Flower Art Class, Complimentary Gaming Sessions (to get you hooked on the casino!), Needlework and Knitting, Variety Show Time ….

Surely there must be something for everyone on board this ship. Even if you don't want to join in activities, you have the option of sharing a table at mealtimes. As long as you can interact with people, I'm sure you would not be lonely on this voyage, or indeed alone, unless you choose to be. The plus point is that you don't have to join in any activities if you don't want to, and there is no one pressurising you to do so.

After our evening meal, we decide to go to the Variety Show – it's only on for just over an hour, then there's a break, and the whole show is repeated for those who have “second sitting” dinner at 8.30 pm.

I wait in the theatre before the start of the show, while Reg pops upstairs to get his tablet, as he's using it as a kindle. We decided not to have the internet while on board ship; partly because it's expensive, but also because Reg feels it will be good for us to be away from emails and from posting blogs for the next few days. We can still send the occasional text to keep in touch with family if we need to.

While I'm sitting waiting for Reg, a man comes to sit beside me; he introduces himself as the ship's Chaplain – he's a (partially) retired Catholic priest. When Reg returns, I introduce him to the priest, who jokes,

I thought he must be your husband. Otherwise he would be very forward to come and sit next to you like he did!”

We don't have much time to chat, as the concert starts, and the young singer, Jenny Williams, who says she's from Manchester, really does have a superb singing voice. The Catholic Priest, bless him, sings along to all the songs he knows, which slightly reduces my enjoyment of her performance! When Jenny's sung a medley of songs (including one of my favourites, “Love Changes Everything” from “Aspects of Love”), the Royal Cunard Singers and Dancers do a Neil Diamond Tribute which is also very enjoyable. The theatre is packed with guests.

After the show we have a chance to chat to the Catholic Priest, and it's a fascinating conversation. He tells us he's 84 years old and has spent most of his working life in the Bronx area of New York, working specifically with black African Americans. We discuss the new Pope Francis, and agree that he is a charismatic revolutionary, following Christ in the way he lives and in the way he encourages others to live their lives. We discuss whether Catholic priests should be able to marry; the Chaplain agrees with us that they should, and that this will come in time. He believes however that there are all sorts of issues which will arise, such as the role of the priest's wife in supporting him within the church. Interestingly, he says, in some parts of the world, such as in Syria, priests have been able to marry for many centuries. We talk about the role of women in the Catholic church, and about gay marriage. All in a very short space of time! Soon people are starting to come into the theatre, ready for the second performance of the variety show.

We really enjoy our chat with the Catholic Chaplain of the Queen Mary 2 – I do believe it was meant to be that he came to sit next to me!
















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